Paternity Issues

Paternity IssuesIn New York when a child is born out of wedlock paternity needs to be established. A father can sign at the child’s birth an acknowledgment of paternity. In this situation if there is no dispute as to who the father is, a voluntary acknowledgment of paternity establishes the father’s rights as a parent. The acknowledgment of paternity needs to be executed by both parents at the time the child is born in the hospital.

Paternity Petition

In cases where an acknowledgment of paternity is not executed, at the time the child is born, in the hospital, a paternity petition may need to be initiated in the Family Courts in the State of New York.

A paternity petition can be filed by a father at any time until the child reaches the age of 21. If there is a paternity issue and the mother disputes who the father is, the court can order both parents to submit to genetic testing for a DNA determination to determine if the man alleging to be the child’s biological father is actually the biological father. In a case where the court determines a man is the biological father, the court will issue an Order of Filiation. The Order of Filiation states that the man who brought the paternity petition is actually the child’s legal father. In this situation the man’s name can be added to the child’s birth certificate.

Custody & Child Support

Once paternity is established issues involving visitation, child support and custody of the child can be dealt with by the court. The non-residential parent will have to pay child support to the parent the child lives with.

schlissel-headshotElliot S. Schlissel, Esq. is a divorce lawyer representing men and women throughout the Metropolitan New York area. He can be reached at Elliot@sdnylaw.com or 800-344-6431.

How Do Fathers Win Child Custody Cases

How Do Fathers Win Child Custody CasesThe law in the State of New York is gender neutral. Each parent has an equal opportunity to have custody of their children. However, many fathers who are involved in custody disputes feel there in an unspoken bias in the legal system. With this in mind, fathers who want custody of their children should do everything in their power to prove to the court that they should be awarded custody. They should do more than the mother does for the children, because if each of the parents contribute equally to their child’s or children’s lives, there is a tendency of some judges is to award custody to the mother.

Fathers Should Be Involved in the Education of their Children

The fathers should be involved in the education of their children. They should help their children with their homework. They should go to parent/teacher conferences. They should know the names of their children’s teachers and how to contact their child’s teachers or schools regarding any problems the child has. Fathers should be involved in the medical and dental care of their children. If possible, they should accompany their children to dental or medical appointments. They should be familiar with all the medical or dental issues their children have. Fathers should try to be involved in the athletic endeavors involving their children. They should offer to coach teams or be involved in their children’s extra curricular activities.

Fathers who have jobs that do not coincide with the children’s schedules, social networking and extra-curricular activities may have difficulty participating in these endeavors. Preparing a strong custody case involves planning and sometimes the father willing to make sacrifices in his life for the benefit of his children.

Gender Issues in Divorces

Gender Issues in DivorcesThere was a time in New York when the man’s responsibility was to support the family and the woman’s responsibility was to raise the children and maintain the home. That changed a long time ago. However, there are implicit biases still maintained by some in the legal system regarding men being the financial providers and women being responsible for raising the children.

Litigating Custody Issues

In situations where there are disputes involving custody and parenting time, it can be helpful in resolving cases out of court. Litigating in court is expensive, time consuming and emotionally challenging. When the case is on the court’s calendar there are often many other cases on the calendar. The attorney representing a party to a custody lawsuit may have to sit around for hours waiting for the case to be called by the Judge. An innovative attorney can come up with custody and parenting solutions that avoids the expense and necessity of repeated court appearances, and a decision made by a judge who is a stranger to the parties.

Attorney for the Children

In custody cases that cannot be amicably resolved between the parents, the court will appoint an attorney to represent the children. This attorney for the children will meet with the children to try to get a feeling as to who the children would prefer to live with. This puts psychological and emotional pressure on the children which should be avoided if at all possible.

schlissel-headshotElliot S. Schlissel, Esq. is a divorce lawyer representing men and women throughout the Metropolitan New York area. He can be reached at Elliot@sdnylaw.com or 800-344-6431.

Family Law Custody and Parenting Rights

Family Law Custody and Parenting RightsEach parent plays an important role in their children’s lives. This takes place until children have reached an age where they are fully independent of parents for support, care, intellectual development and ethical issues for their children. Children form bonds with their parents in their early years. When a custody dispute arises, it impacts on the bonds the parents have with their children.

Traditional Families

In traditional families the father earned the income and the mother raised the children. Although some families still operate in this manner, it is generally not the case in today’s society. The father has an equal role in raising their children. This is true whether the parents are married at the time of the children’s birth, or the children are born out of wedlock.

Custody Cases

God set up children in a manner that they want to love both of their parents and have relationships with both of their parents. Custody cases should not proceed in a manner that alienates the children from the parent the children do not live with.

It is unfortunate that some custody cases end up in bitter litigation. Children should not be used as pawns in custody cases. This often results in the children being the real victims in the custody cases.

schlissel-headshotElliot S. Schlissel, Esq. is a divorce lawyer representing men and women throughout the Metropolitan New York area. He can be reached at Elliot@sdnylaw.com or 800-344-6431.

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Father’s Rights In New York Family Court

Father’s Rights In New York Family CourtIn the Family Courts of New York, Fathers have equal rights with regard to issues concerning child custody and visitation of their children. After it is established who the Father is, the child then receives rights to inherit from the Father and the child can participate in the Father’s health insurance plan.

No Preference Between Mothers And Fathers And Family Courts

In Family Court in New York, the issues concerning who receives child custody, whether it be the Father or the Mother is determined by what is in the best interest of the child. Neither the Father nor the Mother receives any type of preference with regard to issues concerning who shall receive custody.

Being Married or Not Married Doesn’t Usually Matter

Whether parents are married or not is usually not an issue in determining custody. Custody determinations in the state of New York can be made either by the Family Court or the Supreme Court. In divorce cases, which take place in the Supreme Court, a Judge can make rulings on custody. Custody cases in the Family Court can be brought by people who are married or unmarried. The Family Courts in the state of New York have simultaneous jurisdiction concerning issues of custody with the Supreme Court.

schlissel-headshotElliot S. Schlissel, Esq. is a divorce lawyer representing men and women throughout the Metropolitan New York area. He can be reached at Elliot@sdnylaw.com or 800-344-6431.